E: Archive

4 tags

May 2nd

8 tags

Apr 30th

6 tags

Apr 30th

2 tags

Apr 27th

3 tags

Apr 27th

1 note

5 tags

Apr 26th

3 tags

Apr 26th

3 tags

Apr 26th

1 note

6 tags

Apr 26th

3 tags

Apr 26th

6 tags

Apr 26th

People don't listen

After my show last night.. Audience member: You were great Me: Thank you. How did you hear about the show? Audience member: I am a physical therapist. Silence…………………………….

Feb 22nd

Ish Students Say in a Sex Ed Class

Me: What is a pleasure of sex? Student: Feels Warm

Feb 22nd

Telemarketer Priceless Moments

Telemarketer: Hello Ericka, I wanted to know if you have ever taken birth control? Me: No, I have not. Telemarketer: Are you sure? Me: Pretty Sure. Telemarketer: Well, we got your number. Me: Ok…. Telemarketer: Well, I am trying to help you. Are you interested in birth control? Me: No. Telemarketer: Why? Me: Because I only sleep with one woman and I doubt she is getting me pregnant any...

Feb 22nd

Dec 19th

1 tag

Sex Ed Class, Take One

I taught a class on sexual orientation today and this was the best part. Student: Miss, Are you Gay? Me: Yes and I identify as bisexual Student: Wow. Cool. I love my job.

Dec 12th

"Too"

I discovered some internalized oppression I have of my sexuality today. I don’t share with my students that I am bisexual because I am afraid that it is “too” sexual. Even though I teach a sex ed class! Sharing with them that I am bisexual is too much for them to handle. It occurred to me today in a LGBTQ workshop I attended at work that I made up as a little kid-...

Nov 15th

Supermodel Material

Has this ever happened to you? I am walking towards the train… And as the doors of the train close..I catch the eye of someone and then they for some reason find me intriguing and we lock eyes… The train door closes and they continue to watch as the train moves faster..They begin to turn and twist their body to keep the stare with the intentions to not disturb those standing...

Sep 6th

7 tags

Watch

Ok I know this damn book is FICTION! Why non-fiction has slipped out of my mouth, I don’t know! Excuse that and enjoy the little fabulous review!

Aug 10th

Ugh. I have not been posting.

I will stop doing that. And begin writing again. That is all. E

Jun 12th

May 2nd

|əbˈjektəˌfī|

“Hey Girl, You are beautiful!” I am and do not need you to tell me “Hey Girl… hey.. girl… hey” Yes? “You are beautiful” “Thank you” There is nothing like verbal 8am harassment They say that those in rap videos are objectified That’s me Everyday when I walk down the street You can think about the clothes I wear ...

Apr 30th

Me in my first NYC play!

Woooo! I am going to be in my first NYC play! Can you handle it!? See all details below! Buy your ticket! Home In Her Heart a new play by Margaret Morrison 1939: in the gathering storm of war, Jimmie and Claire close their London nightclub act to return to a segregated U.S. Can the love of two women survive the black-white divide? Directed by Cheryl King With Ericka Hart...

Apr 11th

Condom = Heroin

I feel like I have been handing out syringes to kids. My colleagues and I just got word that we are no longer allowed to perform condom demonstrations or give students condoms on school grounds! Department of Education in New York City has waved their wand and if we were caught providing condoms or demonstrating how to use a condom properly we would be ARRESTED! I feel like a condom now has a...

Apr 11th

Slut, Whore, Prostitute, Birth Control User?

I do not think Rush Limbaugh was the first person to think a woman who takes birth control is a slut. But, I have to give it to him that he was one of few to say it to the masses. My only question to all people who have this thought is: Do you think women jump on top of themselves when they have sex? Well, after they swallow their birth control pill and then have sex, of course. Are they...

Mar 5th

1 note

Slut, Whore, Prostitute, Birth Control User?

I do not think Rush Limbaugh was the first person to think a woman who takes birth control is a slut. But, I have to give it to him that he was one of few to say it to the masses. My only question to all people who have this thought is: Do you think women jump on top of themselves when they have sex? Well, after they swallow their birth control pill and then have sex, of course. Are they...

Mar 5th

Putting an Aspirin between my legs?

It occurred to me this morning that I have been having internal upsets at the Foster Friess comment: Oh just for those of you who had not heard, here is a little background stolen from TPM: ,“This whole contraception debate is just so new-fangled, says billionaire investor and mega-funder to the super PAC supporting former Senator Rick Santorum (R-PA) for President, Foster Friess. In a...

Feb 21st

1 note

STI's in Senior Homes!

I had no idea! Really, Grandma? Peace and MASTURBATION! -E

Jan 25th

Jan 22nd

1 note

My first time

at a sex toy shop…. I was with my very first boyfriend and we went because we wanted to get “creative”. I was about 19 and by this time I had decided that I wanted to work in the field of sex. I did not know what my career was going to look like, but I knew that I wanted to wow everyone with all my knowledge around the subject. My boyfriend and I had been together for about 2...

Jan 17th

Sex Pop-Up Cafe

Hello Everyone! Just a little about me: I am currently unemployed and it is fabulous! Last night, I applied to intern with AIDs Walk and I have just applied to what might have been my dream job- working with High School Students educating about sex! What! I am crossing my fingers that they will call because I am so ready for this! When you are unemployed, you have lots of time to think about...

Jan 6th

2012

Here is to safe sex, masturbation, and love!!!! Cheers!! Ericka

Jan 1st

9 notes

More lesbians!!!! →

No, but really… Check this out Merry Christmas!!

Dec 24th

Dear Sex Santa,

I am apart of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapist (AASECT) list serve and if you are not apart of the list serve and are interested in this field you should add yourself (www.aasect.org) because there are really great topics discussed often by Sex Educators, Therapist, and Counselors across the country. I received an email the other day from a gentlemen by...

Dec 24th

Car conversation

Dad: Did Justin Bieber have sex with the girl he allegedly got pregnant? Me: I don’t know. They just asked if it was his baby or not. Dad: oh , but they never discussed if they ever had sex? Diego(my 7 year old brother): what is sex? Ambar(my 8 year old sister): it’s like kissing and stuff… End scene.

Dec 22nd

I am sexy, beautiful, stunning, gorgeous ect. .

So I had one piece of fan mail a while back where someone wrote to me and asked if I would share a little about myself! So I figure I would share a little something I came to notice about me… For ever since I can remember people have always been very complimentary of me.”Ericka you are so pretty and confident” and I don’t mean to share that in a vain way. I am sharing...

Dec 3rd

World AIDs Day

Today is world aids day!!! Go out today and make a difference for those who have been infected, affected, and have lost their lives to this disease. I am a stand that this disease ends today!! Get tested today! Use protection! Have great sex!! Love, E

Dec 1st

Nov 26th

Teaching Good Sex →

Introducing pleasure to the peril of sex education. - I emailed Al Vernacchio (the phenomenal educator this article is written about) and HE responded! - I wanted advice as to how I can be him when I grow up! The email was informative and incredibly gracious considering how busy he must be! Thank you Al! Either way, I share this article with all of you because it is exactly the education...

Nov 26th

Watch

Happy National Coming Out Day! Here is my coming out story! Now, tell me yours! Check out humanrightscampaign.org to see how you can get involved.

Oct 11th

Oct 10th

Watch

Im back!!!!!!!! This clip has animation too! Enjoy!

Sep 17th

How losing an erection made his sex life better!

Great Article! Read! http://www.alternet.org/story/150266/how_losing_my_erection_made_my_sex_life_better?page=1

Jul 29th

Yoga Quote

This quote has been read a few times in my yoga class and always moves me. I want to have it with me all the time. Makes me really responsible for my life. Enjoy! “I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or...

Jul 29th

Watch

This is an oldie, but goodie! Enjoy. My roomie talking about his revelation discovery with a polyamorous life. Hmmm….

Jul 29th

Watch

My sex story! Now, send me yours! Let’s make a difference! Email me: ericka.l.hart@gmail.com

Jul 14th

“This is not a practice life.”

– Unknown

Jun 24th

Watch

I am back! I haven’t posted a blog in a while, but I promise that I am here and will be posting every week. Topic: Scheduling Sex

Jun 24th

Blog 4 Preview

Blog 4- Preview for next Blog! I will be interviewing members of the Black Gay Community on the next blog! I want to hear your experiences! I will share mine but let’s educate the world on your experiences! I will share a bit too! As an African American bisexual who did not grow up in a predominant black neighborhood or have any trouble coming out to my liberal non-religious parent, i...

Apr 28th